We started young

We met through a church friend (my sister’s boyfriend at the time) and attended rival high schools. It didn’t look too promising for a long-term relationship.

Here we are, 60 years ago, at a youth retreat, eating fried chicken together.

Then came the junior prom –

Then a senior prom –

And then the breakup midway through my senior year of high school.

Post-high school involved a bit of college for both of us, reconnecting as friends after a year and a half, falling in love for real, and in 1971, when we were both too young to know any better, we did a thing!

Babies came.

Babies grew up,

got married, had babies of their own, and began their own life journey.

And before we knew it –

We arrived here!

Happy 55 years to us! I’m not gonna lie – they haven’t all been sunshine and cupcake years. But through old house renovations (ugh, another crack in the plaster?), owning a small business (both a dream and a nightmare), raising three (almost always) wonderful kids, and living in 300 sq. ft. for 20 years – we’ve never given up on each other. And more importantly, God has never given up on us either. We are so thankful for His mercy and grace – that He has kept us together as we’ve been dancing through those minefields!

Thanks for coming along for the ride!
Steph
PS – And here we are in real time – following a lovely anniversary dinner with friends this evening!
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Made it to the ‘Ber months

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But while we adjust to summer in Texas, we are also getting settled here at home after our wonderful Vermont summer.  Many of our neighbors also head for cooler climes in the summer, but one by one, they are venturing home.  We’re thoroughly enjoying reconnecting with folks here, Gary and I are getting into a routine of sorts, and I’m still looking for those matches!

So as we start these ‘Ber months, I’m hopeful (but not confident) that I can step up this blogging thing. You know there are lots of stories from the summer – I just need to get them written down!

Happy September, everyone! Thanks for stopping by!

Steph

Home

Our first Vermont Summer has come to a close, and ready or not – we’re back home in our little nest in Texas.

We were ready – because we both were missing our house, our neighbors, and our neighborhood! I’m not gonna lie – it feels great to sleep in our own bed and cook in my own kitchen.  (OK, I haven’t actually cooked anything yet, but I did make some killer chicken salad with a rotisserie chicken tonight.)

or Not – because it’s 9 PM, and it’s still 91° out!  (Honestly, the lows here in Lindale are the highs at the Cabin right now). But thankfully, the A/C is working just fine, and I have so much computer/bookkeeping work (i.e., I reconciled four months of bank statements today) to catch up on that staying inside isn’t really that hard to do!

The truck and trailer are mostly unloaded, and we’re generally unpacked.  I’m working on reacquainting myself with where things are in this house (I know I have matches somewhere to light that scented candle) and collecting hugs from our friends here in the neighborhood.

It might be stupid hot, but we’re glad to be home anyway! And ready to see what the Lord has in store for us here!

Thanks for stopping by!  I’m so thankful for your patience and encouragement as we continue on this new journey!

Steph

Sabbatical?

Apparently, I am taking a sabbatical from blogging this summer. I didn’t realize that was the plan, but given the non-blogging that’s been happening here, I think I just need to embrace that reality!! So before we hit ‘radio silence’ for the next several weeks, here’s a quick update on our Vermont Summer!
We’ve seen loads of friends and family! We’ve connected with SOWER friends, college friends, young motherhood friends, nieces, nephews, and siblings! And of course, friends here in Bradford.
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Lord willing, we’ll be catching another group of family and friends on our way back to Texas!
Currently, we’re at our third (and final) summer location – a sweet cottage in West Newbury (only about 10 minutes (all dirt road) to the cabin or 10 minutes to Bradford (mostly paved)). Previously this summer, we’ve had many sweet Cabin days (both staying there and also just doing day visits), and then enjoyed several weeks “in town” at my niece’s place while she was away. Yes, staying in one place would’ve been easier, but each spot had its own advantages and delights! (And two of them even had flush toilets!)
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The Cabin – the summer revolves around this heart location.
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In-town – only 10 minutes from the cabin, and close enough to town to walk to our favorite Taco Tuesday restaurant!
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The West Newbury cottage – close to the cabin and town, but situated off the beaten track, and with a great view across the river to New Hampshire!

What great accommodations we’ve enjoyed!

We spent a week in Ohio, watching granddaughter #3 graduate from high school and spending time with our Ohio families.
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How precious was that visit! (Big bonus is they will all be at the Cabin over the next two weeks, so we’ll get to see them again before we head south!)
We took a mini road trip with my sister and BIL to the coast of Maine for a lovely visit with my niece and hubby. Sure is purty there!
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And the company was pretty fine, too!
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One of my big concerns with this extended stay in Vermont was keeping Gary busy. I have my computer, sewing machine and a jigsaw puzzle, so I’m good to go. But Gary?  He’s not very good at sitting around. I’m happy to report that between some local friends and various cabin jobs, he’s been doing a great job keeping out of trouble.

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Roof over Grill New Loft window Treehouse sleeping bunks

We’ve enjoyed beautiful sunsets at the cabin
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And now we’re awakened (maybe a little too early) by amazing sunrises over the White Mountains.
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All in all, this Vermont Summer plan has been a delight! Oh, we’ve had some rainy days (good for naps) and some stupid hot days (good for doing NOTHING), and yes, the truck is making a funny clicking sound that we’re having looked at next week – but aside from a few glitches – I’m calling it a winner!

As always, thanks for stopping by and reading through this (not so quick) update on our Vermont Summer.  I’ll be back – when I’m back!

Steph

Sabbath Rest – All I have is Christ

It’s been over a month since I last posted, and it only seemed fitting that I start ‘back at it’ with a Sabbath Rest hymn. One that speaks of the mystery of Christ’s great love for us! May this always be my prayer –
O Father, use my ransomed life
In any way You choose
And let my song forever be
“My only boast is You”

Verse 1
I once was lost in darkest night
Yet thought I knew the way
The sin that promised joy and life
Had led me to the grave
I had no hope that You would own
A rebel to Your will
And if You had not loved me first
I would refuse You still

Verse 2
But as I ran my hell-bound race
Indifferent to the cost
You looked upon my helpless state
And led me to the cross
And I beheld God’s love displayed
You suffered in my place
You bore the wrath reserved for me
Now all I know is grace

Chorus
Hallelujah!
All I have is Christ
Hallelujah!
Jesus is my life

Verse 3
Now, Lord, I would be Yours alone
And live so all might see
The strength to follow Your commands
Could never come from me
O Father, use my ransomed life
In any way You choose
And let my song forever be
“My only boast is You”

Chorus x3

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Seeing the country……Serving our Lord!