A Family Treasure

We have been blessed with many treasures in our family.  Today I want to highlight one that I was reminded of this summer.
Aunt Vesta
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Some treasures sneak up on you. They are quiet and unassuming, and don’t require much attention. Sometimes years go by without any thought or connection.  But once you realize it, it’s something you can’t unsee!
Vesta was married to my Dad’s cousin Vic, who passed away in 1998,  so while not technically my aunt, we still claim her!  She and Vic raised three children and then opened their home to many Chinese students over the years, whom she now considers her Chinese family! As a family, they moved about quite a bit with Vic’s job, but in retirement moved to Haverhill, NH. And Haverhill, NH is just across the river from Bradford, VT. (You get where I’m going with this, right?)

This summer I was able to connect with Aunt Vesta three separate times.

Twice at her home in Haverhill,
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and once as we drove together to the Dwinell Family Homestead to celebrate July 4th!
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(That’s her on the porch, holding the 250th flag.)
Here we are with my cousin, Hannah (which was another lovely surprise from that day!)
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Visits with Aunt Vesta have always been delightful. But this summer, those visits hit in a different (and to be treasured) way. You see, Aunt Vesta is 101 years old. One Hundred and One. She lives alone in her classic New England home (though neighbors check on her daily), still drives (but hasn’t recently because a robin made a nest in her garage and she didn’t want to disturb it), and has overcome two falls in recent years (one of which involved falling in the shower, after which she managed to, with a broken leg, get to a phone, call 911, and then get dressed before the EMTs arrived!). She’s sharp. I mean, really sharp! She is full of stories and memories and insights. She was born the same year as my parents, and while she didn’t necessarily grow up with them, she experienced all those same milestones with them – weddings, babies, moves, losses – Life. Our hour-long drive back and forth to the Homestead reunion stands out as a very special time. And it took me a minute to figure out why. As we shared about our families, both young and old, it was a little taste of what it would be like to have my Mom and Dad in the front seat with me. Those were moments to cherish indeed!

Aunt Vesta, I don’t know how many more years we will be blessed with having you in our lives. But I do know this – we will take each one with thanksgiving! You are our family treasure, and we love you!

Thanks for stopping by, friends!
Steph

Now go call your parents or grandparents or maybe even your great aunt!! You’ll be happy you did! (I was!)

Mondays are for Memories – a little back story

Since I’m still trying to organize the over 1400 photos that I took over our Vermont summer into some sort of order, I thought I’d start with a little look back. This is a post that I wrote back in September of 2014, and it gives a little bit of backstory to that little red cabin in Vermont!

Do you think they knew?
It was in October of 1937, in the midst of the Great Depression, when my grandparents purchased 190 acres (+/- as the deed states) about 8 miles outside of town along the road to Wright’s Mountain. My grandfather was the town doctor with a young family, and I’ve often wondered just how they were able to scrape together the funds to not only purchase the land but then build this modest one-room cabin during a time when his bills were as apt to be paid with live chickens and black raspberry jam as cold, hard cash.
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But regardless of how it all happened, I wonder if they knew the impact this little get-away would have on their descendants.
I’m pretty sure the cabin was not built as a vacation destination. Since I doubt that in the years preceding World War II there were many vacation days built into a country doctor’s life, I think the cabin, in its earliest years, was more a spot for an afternoon of quiet, or maybe even that safe place where my grandmother could take the kids for a break in the routine. Knowing my grandmother, she probably used it for parties too!
Fast forward to the 1950’s. Although as a family we ALWAYS came to Bradford for our vacation (last week in July/first week in August = Plant shutdown = two weeks in Bradford), we stayed at our grandparents’ house  – the “Big House” in the middle of town (complete with the Doctor’s office and Nurse Cora) and later a small house just outside of town affectionately called “The Little House”. I think that four young children coupled with no electricity, water that needed to be pumped by hand from the not-very-close-by well, and the random cow plops that dotted our meadow and path to the pond made “cabin time”a bit more challenging during those years. (My grandparents leased out the cabin property to a nearby farmer for his dry cows to roam. The cows did a great job of keeping down the undergrowth and added a bit of whimsy to the cabin ambiance, but you never knew when you might come across one of their deposits.) We were more apt to pile in the jeepster for an afternoon cabin excursion or maybe, as a special treat, an overnight camping adventure.
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While it wasn’t the ultimate destination for our family vacation, it was still the highlight. It was the spot where I learned to swim, bait a hook, row a boat, enjoy freshly caught trout for breakfast, and read by candlelight. Precious memories all. By the late 1960s, electricity had arrived, and we began to stay at the cabin for longer stretches of time. Or maybe it was that my grandparents were getting older and the happy mayhem of our family (now full of teenagers) was best enjoyed by them visiting us at the cabin rather than us staying with them and just visiting the cabin. It’s hard to say. But by the early 70’s, as our generation was getting married and starting our families, the Cabin became the destination. We could hardly wait to introduce our little ones to the joys of the Cabin. (Difficulty of children napping in a one-room cabin notwithstanding. At least the cow plop era was over!)
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Along with being the vacation destination, over the years our little slice of Vermont heaven has also served as a honeymoon cabin, a retreat from the world cabin, and a family gathering cabin.
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1998 – The last summer my Dad (center) made it to the cabin.

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2012 – The Cabin’s 75th Anniversary

This summer, along with the four of us “senior siblings”, six of the thirteen cousins and their families spent time at the cabin. Several others longed to be here but couldn’t make the logistics work. Hooks were baited, inner tubes were inflated, frogs were caught, and books were read. Naps were taken, and favorite spots were explored. Maybe even a party or two was enjoyed. And important moments like these were shared.
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Grampy Doc and Lizzie > Dad and Mom > four siblings > 13 cousins > 29 (and counting) second cousins
I wonder if they knew…….

We started young

We met through a church friend (my sister’s boyfriend at the time) and attended rival high schools. It didn’t look too promising for a long-term relationship.

Here we are, 60 years ago, at a youth retreat, eating fried chicken together.

Then came the junior prom –

Then a senior prom –

And then the breakup midway through my senior year of high school.

Post-high school involved a bit of college for both of us, reconnecting as friends after a year and a half, falling in love for real, and in 1971, when we were both too young to know any better, we did a thing!

Babies came.

Babies grew up,

got married, had babies of their own, and began their own life journey.

And before we knew it –

We arrived here!

Happy 55 years to us! I’m not gonna lie – they haven’t all been sunshine and cupcake years. But through old house renovations (ugh, another crack in the plaster?), owning a small business (both a dream and a nightmare), raising three (almost always) wonderful kids, and living in 300 sq. ft. for 20 years – we’ve never given up on each other. And more importantly, God has never given up on us either. We are so thankful for His mercy and grace – that He has kept us together as we’ve been dancing through those minefields!

Thanks for coming along for the ride!
Steph
PS – And here we are in real time – following a lovely anniversary dinner with friends this evening!
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Made it to the ‘Ber months

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But while we adjust to summer in Texas, we are also getting settled here at home after our wonderful Vermont summer.  Many of our neighbors also head for cooler climes in the summer, but one by one, they are venturing home.  We’re thoroughly enjoying reconnecting with folks here, Gary and I are getting into a routine of sorts, and I’m still looking for those matches!

So as we start these ‘Ber months, I’m hopeful (but not confident) that I can step up this blogging thing. You know there are lots of stories from the summer – I just need to get them written down!

Happy September, everyone! Thanks for stopping by!

Steph

Home

Our first Vermont Summer has come to a close, and ready or not – we’re back home in our little nest in Texas.

We were ready – because we both were missing our house, our neighbors, and our neighborhood! I’m not gonna lie – it feels great to sleep in our own bed and cook in my own kitchen.  (OK, I haven’t actually cooked anything yet, but I did make some killer chicken salad with a rotisserie chicken tonight.)

or Not – because it’s 9 PM, and it’s still 91° out!  (Honestly, the lows here in Lindale are the highs at the Cabin right now). But thankfully, the A/C is working just fine, and I have so much computer/bookkeeping work (i.e., I reconciled four months of bank statements today) to catch up on that staying inside isn’t really that hard to do!

The truck and trailer are mostly unloaded, and we’re generally unpacked.  I’m working on reacquainting myself with where things are in this house (I know I have matches somewhere to light that scented candle) and collecting hugs from our friends here in the neighborhood.

It might be stupid hot, but we’re glad to be home anyway! And ready to see what the Lord has in store for us here!

Thanks for stopping by!  I’m so thankful for your patience and encouragement as we continue on this new journey!

Steph

Seeing the country……Serving our Lord!