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Some things ARE hard

Today marks the completion of nineteen years of life in our motor home. Nineteen years of seeing this beautiful country (and a bit of Canada too). Nineteen years of meeting the most amazing people and seeing God at work in ministries big and small. We’ve slept in every state except North Dakota and Hawaii (still waiting for that bridge) and visited most of our national parks. It’s been a grand and glorious adventure – totally unexpected in so many ways, yet never once have we doubted that we are right where God wants us to be. But still, some things ARE hard. Recently I had some first-hand experience with one of those ‘hard’ things.
Earlier this summer I noticed an unusual spot on my upper chest. It started small but over the course of a couple of weeks it continued to grow and it could no longer be ignored. I sent a photo to our primary care doctor who strongly suggested that I find a doctor and have it removed and tested. Ah – those ominous words “find a doctor”.
One of those Hard Things.
Step one – Call a local doctor, explain my situation, and ask for an appointment. “Well, we have to send you some paperwork since you’ll be a new patient. Once we get the paperwork back, we should be able to get an appointment for you in four-six weeks.” Nope. That wasn’t going to work since we’d be out of the area by then. She suggested I contact an urgent care center.
Step two – Locate the closest urgent care center and make an online appointment. They confirmed via text and asked why I was coming in. I explained that I had a cyst that my PCP wanted to have removed and tested. “Oh, we don’t do that,” was the quick reply. They kindly suggested that I go to an emergency room.
Now I have to say, this did not seem in any way shape or form to be an emergency room event to me. But early the next morning Gary and I headed off to the ER at a small hospital about 30 minutes away.
Step three – The ER. We were seen quickly and a young ER doctor examined my cyst. “Hmmmm…Let me talk to my surgeon friend.” She came back a few minutes later. “Can I take a picture of it?” Sure! Click, and off she goes. At her next appearance, she had an appointment card in her hand. “I’ve made you an appointment with a surgeon next week. He should be able to take care of this for you.”
Step four – Go to the surgeon the next week, fill out new patient info (again), and hope that maybe today will be the day the problem will be resolved. After a careful exam of the cyst, he feels he can better take care of the removal in his surgical center. Next week. Two days before we’re scheduled to leave the area.
Step five – Return to the hospital, get checked into the outpatient surgical unit, and wait patiently for the surgeon to arrive. He arrives, we chat, he numbs up the area, does the deed, and sends me home with instructions not to go swimming for 10 days.
Step six – Call the surgeon a week later (and 200 miles away)to see how the testing came out. As expected, it was a small squamous cell carcinoma, but all of the margins were clear and there is nothing further to be done. Except stay out of the sun, and have my regular doctor check it over in six weeks. That should be easier to accomplish since we try to swing by that way at least once a year.
So all is good. It was a Hard Thing – but not an Impossible Thing. The timing was close – but we received good care (even if it took a couple of extra steps!). No pictures this time. (You’re welcome.) I may not be wearing any V-neck tops for a while, but I’m pretty sure they’ll be back in the wardrobe rotation soon!

But hey – NINETEEN years!! How crazy is that!

August 1, 2004
 

Behind again

Ah – I’m beginning to sound like a broken record! Days whiz by and suddenly I’m trying to catch up with all of the comings and goings since my last post.  Which was over a week ago!  We finished up our July project, spent time with friends and family during our ‘off’ week, and are now parked at High Braes Refuge for our August SOWER project.
We’re working by ourselves, and it feels like it will be a productive month with very few distractions. So maybe, just maybe, I’ll get caught up here with some of the fun things we did during the last week, and even include a little wrap-up of our July project.

One final thought before I start looking for a hymn for tomorrow’s Sabbath Rest – although the first part of our trip today did include the traffic model in the header picture, there was also a fair bit of highway driving. Which also included a bit of this –
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There was rain most of the day, but once again we are thankful for safe travels and a lovely resting spot for the next three weeks! Praise be to God for his mercies to us today (and everyday!).
Steph

Made it to Montrose

It was a lovely day for a drive

and we got an early start on this first leg of our Ohio trip.

We arrived safely at the rig parked in Montrose (PA) and settled in for the night. It was good to check on things since we have been gone for almost three weeks and you never know what can happen to a lonely motor home parked (essentially) in a field. Everything seemed fine- no sign of a mouse invasion, the electricity had stayed on so there was no spoiled food in the refrigerator, and the plants on the dashboard had lived through those weeks of neglect.
As I was chilling in the recliner though, I saw a bird land on one of our mirrors. He seemed pretty comfortable, and when I looked more closely I could see that he (or she) had spent quite a bit of time on that mirror (and the other one, too. Ewww)

Looks like we’ll have a bit of clean-up to do when we get back. And make sure there isn’t a nest somewhere where there shouldn’t be one.
I also watched a plump groundhog lumber under the rig. Hmmmm…
Wonder what he was getting into? Hopefully he was just taking a shortcut home!

Maybe we’ll have some time to do some investigating into the abundance of nearby critters on our return trip,  but for now it’s off to bed – there are 500 miles of road waiting for us to cover tomorrow.

Sweet Dreams, my friends!

 

May Day

Per Dictionary.com –
May Day
noun
the first day of May, long celebrated with various festivities, as the crowning of the May queen, dancing around the Maypole, and, in recent years, often marked by labor parades and political demonstrations.

Although our May Day was actually a long rainy road trip, it still was a celebration of sorts! During April, we facilitated a 250-person SOWER Rally, drove Lizzie (the RV) from East Texas to western Missouri, flew to Salt Lake City (that was just me – Gary stayed in MO) for a very special weekend with some of my nieces and my sister, worked at that Missouri ministry, drove Lizzie to Columbus, OH where we saw all of our Ohio kiddos and grands, and enjoyed a fabulous high school production of Mary Poppins. Then today we drove all day (okay, there were a couple of nap attacks along the way) to arrive here at Montrose Bible Conference, where dear Lizzie will rest for the next several weeks while we celebrate having made it through April at the Cabin.
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Tomorrow we regroup, reorganize, and repack the truck.

The Cabin is calling……
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The Find the Family Road Trip

Over 2400 miles
Over 85 hours of driving
Seven nights
Six Beds
Spending time with family and friends
Meeting New Family
Priceless
Absolutely Priceless!
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We’ve been back from our Find the Family Road Trip (FFRT) since Sunday, and are still processing all of the wonders of those days. So many of you were praying for us – for both traveling mercies and grace-filled family connections and we thank you! We felt those prayers! God in his kindness gave us days of safe travels, comfortable beds to sleep in, and wonderful times with family (both old and new!) and friends.  The primary purpose of this cross-country trip was to meet two of Gary’s birth siblings.  Since he was adopted as an infant (though not quite from the hospital as we once thought), he never knew any of his older siblings.  The information we had was short and sweet – he had been placed for adoption because his birth father had died before he was born and the mother felt this was the best option for her baby boy.  What we have learned since (through these new relationships)is that there were six older siblings – five brothers and one sister.  Following the death of their father, they were all placed in care. We may never know if Social Services put them into the orphanage to keep them safe or if Mom (Grace) felt it was the best option given the state of her life.  It’s safe to say it was a very messy time for that family.  The three older boys (Jack (now deceased), Lou (who we met), and Jim (who we hope to make contact with in the future) were eventually put into foster care on a farm in Delaware County. The younger four (Georgie, Cleo (renamed Dianne who we also met), Billie, and Robert (renamed Gary) were adopted privately.  So far we have no information on Georgie or Billie.  But what a joy it was to meet Lou and Dianne!
We left Big Sandy (TX) on Sunday the 15th after church.
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We reached the Atlantic Ocean (Myrtle Beach) a 2:39 on Tuesday the 17th.
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Gotta love Myrtle Beach!
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But we didn’t drive to the ocean to see the ocean. We came to meet Gary’s older brother, Lou!
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And what a lovely meeting it was! We joined Lou and his daughter Karla for dinner and spent the entire meal sharing stories!
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Mostly we were interested in Lou’s stories since he was old enough to have good memories of Gary’s birth family (he was 11 when he went into ‘care’). He confirmed that Gary had indeed come to the orphanage before he was adopted because he remembers being called to change his diapers! He also stayed in touch with his brothers who had been in foster care with him and also their mom over the years (she died in 1997). While he’s not in touch with any of them at the moment, he was able to share many of their growing-up stories. It was such a special visit! One that we hope we can repeat in the months to come!
We also had a sweet visit with Dianne (born Cleo) on Friday, who lives in an assisted living facility near Asheville, NC.
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While she doesn’t have clear memories of life before she was adopted (at age 5), she has always been interested in her birth family, and her daughter, Kathy, is largely responsible for making all of these connections. She and her husband are the true heroes of this family story as they have spent many hours tracking down Dianne’s birth family.
While the impetus of this road trip was definitely to Find the Family, we were blessed to make some additional connections along the way. The two nights we were in the Myrtle Beach area we stayed with a couple we hadn’t seen in probably 30 years. I had been her Pioneer Girl Guide back in the day, and we had remained friends through Facebook. What a treat to spend time with her and her hubby (even though he missed the picture!) in their lovely home!
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From MB we headed north and west to spend the night at my nephew’s house before going in to meet Dianne.  Along the way, we were able to enjoy lunch with a sweet friend and her new husband!
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We met Trish in PA 40+ years ago, visited her in California about 15 years ago, and then in Texas, and now in the Carolinas. She’s as hard to keep up with as we are! But it was a delight to share a meal with her and meet her new love!
And then an overnight with the nephew and family! No family pictures, but a delicious meal and then a rousing couple of games of Go Fish
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made for a wonderful evening! (Especially once they helped Gary & me off the floor!)
The next morning we were off to meet Dianne, and from there we turned a little south to spend the night with our high school (!!!) friends, Jeff and Esther, in Clemson, SC! OK, we were friends with them after high school too, but Jeff and his date double-dated with Gary and me to Gary’s Sr. Prom (circa 1968). The best of ‘old’ friends!
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Still processing these new family connections and I’m sure I still have words to write about this journey – but that’s it for tonight! Thanks for coming along – and for those many prayers!

Steph