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We started young

We met through a church friend (my sister’s boyfriend at the time) and attended rival high schools. It didn’t look too promising for a long-term relationship.

Here we are, 60 years ago, at a youth retreat, eating fried chicken together.

Then came the junior prom –

Then a senior prom –

And then the breakup midway through my senior year of high school.

Post-high school involved a bit of college for both of us, reconnecting as friends after a year and a half, falling in love for real, and in 1971, when we were both too young to know any better, we did a thing!

Babies came.

Babies grew up,

got married, had babies of their own, and began their own life journey.

And before we knew it –

We arrived here!

Happy 55 years to us! I’m not gonna lie – they haven’t all been sunshine and cupcake years. But through old house renovations (ugh, another crack in the plaster?), owning a small business (both a dream and a nightmare), raising three (almost always) wonderful kids, and living in 300 sq. ft. for 20 years – we’ve never given up on each other. And more importantly, God has never given up on us either. We are so thankful for His mercy and grace – that He has kept us together as we’ve been dancing through those minefields!

Thanks for coming along for the ride!
Steph
PS – And here we are in real time – following a lovely anniversary dinner with friends this evening!
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A two-fer

September third is a good day in our family. Back in 2010, we welcomed this little guy into our family –
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He was the first boy in that generation, and was instantly loved by his three older sisters.
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Today he turned 15!
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And while he is still adored by his sisters (most days, anyway!), he is  quite the commanding presence these days!
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(That’s his big sister he’s standing by!).
Happy birthday to one sweet, smart, kind (and pretty darn cute), guy!! We love you!
And in other news – Back in 1971, these two kids were getting ready to tie the knot!

And today we celebrated our 54th wedding anniversary with some shopping and a fine dinner out!
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Hope September 3rd was a good day in your neighborhood, too!
Let’s PAARRTY!
Steph

A Birthday, a Milestone, and an Anniversary

We have a lot of things going on this October! On the one hand, this month marks the 20th Anniversary of our very first SOWER project! When we set out in August of 2004 (for our one or two-year adventure) we had already joined SOWERs, planning to do one or maybe two projects as we traveled through the country. We only lasted about six weeks before Gary said to me “Let’s try doing one of those SOWER project things.”  And so we signed up for a SOWER project at a small Christian School in the town of Vienna, Georgia.
It was during that first month of service, parked in the high grass behind this circa 1940 public school building,  doing not our favorite jobs, where God convicted both of us that THIS was what our RV journey should be about. And so began our hard right (and unexpected) turn into full-time ministry.
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Our first group picture –
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Since that (dare I say) fateful October twenty years ago, the Lord has led us on an incredible journey. Folks often ask us “What’s your favorite project?” or “What’s your favorite place?” Let’s be honest – North America is a fabulously diverse and beautiful continent! Our travels have taken us to oceans and mountains, plains and valleys, deserts and glaciers. We’ve seen geysers and waterfalls, bison and antelope, architectural masterpieces and natural wonders. But without a moment’s hesitation, I can say that the most impactful and beautiful part of this entire journey has been seeing God at work! He’s working in international ministries (we’ve helped out a few) and He’s working at small camps with more faith than funds (and we’ve been blessed to serve there too!). But more important than that is to see His work in our hearts and in the hearts and lives of the beautiful people that we have been honored to meet and work alongside of and have come to love. Over these years we’ve worked with over 300 SOWER couples and countless other volunteers and ministry hosts that we now count as dear friends and co-workers of the Kingdom. How very blessed we have been!
Which brings me to our Milestone. During these 20 years of being a part of the SOWER Ministy, we have served at 136 different ministries. I believe we had only heard of (maybe) five of those ministries before we arrived to help. Seeing the depth and breadth of God’s kingdom through these ministries has enlarged our view of God – and just how active He is in the lives and hearts of His people! This month, as we celebrate our 20th Anniversary since our first SOWER project, we are also marking our 200th project month. We are so honored that we have been able to serve the Kingdom for so very many years – and at so very many different locations. We can only give God all the Glory for guiding our steps these many years!

Now that we have our little house in Lindale, many friends have asked if we are retiring from SOWERs. Don’t count us out just yet! We are certainly moving away from doing 10 project months a year, but aren’t quite ready to hang up those tools! We are signed up for project #201 in March – at another ‘new to us’ location! We don’t think that God is done with us, and we pray that we will continue to be used for His purposes wherever He may lead us!

But wait – the birthday!! Our littlest Texan turns FIVE today!
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Not at all sure where those FIVE years have gone (but then again we feel that way about the last 20 too!) – but we sure want to wish this little cowboy the very happiest of birthdays!! We love you, Deacon!

Thanks for joining us as we celebrate Deacon – and a couple of SOWER milestones!
Steph
PS – We’ve been really bad about taking “Group Pictures” when it’s just the two of us on a project. But here is one from this summer – both of us a little grayer (and maybe plumper) but still carrying on!
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Three September Things

    1.  Today this happy little guy
      Noah-2 turned 14!
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      What a delight it has been to watch him grow into manhood! He’s smart and kind, helpful and funny, and handsome and tall. (Yes, another grandchild has grown taller than me) Happy 14th Birthday, Noah! You’re our favorite 14 year old on the planet. We love you so!
    2. These youngun’s
      are celebrating their 53rd anniversary today!

      We’ve re-upped for another year – so we’ll see how it all goes!
      Gary & Steph - 53 years (still with that goofy grin!)
    3. We started work today at Camp Nathanael! We are the only SOWERs this month, but there are lots of other volunteers here all getting ready for the Pioneer Days/Outdoor Education program which begins on Thursday here at the camp. Looks like this month my days will be filled with cornbread, quilting and kids! I’ll let you know how it all pans out!!

So it’s been a pretty good start to the month! Family celebrations, interesting SOWER activities ahead, and the part for Lizzie has been ordered!! There is so very much to be thankful for, isn’t there?
Thanks for stopping by!
Steph

How could I forget to mention…

I’ve been so busy trying to figure out how to capture all of the Fabulous Family Fun from last month, that I totally forgot to mention that this past Thursday, August 1st, was our 20th anniversary of setting out on the crazy-wonderful adventure we call life these days!
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Twenty years ago two fifty-something (mostly) empty-nesters quit their jobs and ran away from home! In these twenty years we’ve traveled through (and stayed at least one night in) every state except North Dakota and Hawaii (waiting for the bridge). Our one year sabbatical (maybe two if we were careful with our funds) to celebrate staying married through raising children, renovating a pre-Civil War home and owning a small business turned (in God’s kindness) into twenty years of ministry! We’ve met the most wonderful people, seen some of the most beautiful places in this country, and seen God at work in all of the nooks and crannies of this great land! What a marvelous adventure we’ve been blessed to be a part of!

There might just a bit of reflection this month as we begin year Twenty-One!

Thanks for stopping by –
Steph